Being Single On Valentine's Day...

There's nothing wrong with being single. In fact, there are a lot of benefits. Like not having to share a bathroom, having control of the remote, peace & quiet, &  getting the bigger half of EVERYTHING (to name a few). But every February 14th, no matter how much you love being single, it's not uncommon to feel a little blue or ask yourself if you'll ever find that Ryan Gosling lookalike who will make your life complete. While the rest of world (or at least the country) is sharing heart-shaped candies, exchanging mushy cards, & dining out with their special someone you might find yourself slipping into your fat pants & staring down the nearly empty depths of a gallon of Ben & Jerry's while tearfully singing along to All By Myself.
However, being single during this Hallmark holiday doesn't have to be a bummer. If you're looking for ways to spend the day that don't include hiring a paid escort, check out these suggestions:

Pamper and treat yourself to something luxurious and pleasurable. Who says you need a lover to send you a valentine? Buy yourself an awesome new outfit, go to the spa and have your nails/hair done, treat yourself to a decadent dinner...there's no reason you can't be spoiled on Valentine's Day, single or not. 

Host a single's Valentine's Day Party.  What's more fun then hosting a get together with good food, cocktails, and friends? Besides, you never know who you might meet...

Volunteer. You know what makes you stop feeling sorry for yourself & start feeling grateful for what you have? Volunteering for those less fortunate then yourself. Check out a homeless shelter, a soup kitchen, a nursing home, or an animal shelter. Besides, you might find a cute furry pet or a new Grandma.

Give unto others. Do you have a friend who's single? Do you have a friend that recently went through a breakup & is hurting more than just the normal I'm-single-on-Valentine's Day-amount? Find yourself a Valentine & spoil the crap out of them. Some cultures don't look at Valentine's Day as a day for couples, but as a day to show their love to friends. Embrace the spirit of this corny Hallmark holiday &  go out to dinner, go dancing, sing terrible karaoke...all with a friend you care about. You might find that spending the day with a friend, showing your appreciation for them & having fun, will be your best Valentine's Day ever. 

Remember...sometimes in life it's not about what you don't have, but about making the most of what you do have & counting your blessings.