Yes, there is something refreshing about reaching the point in the relationship when you can let your guy see you without makeup, trade the skinny jeans for sweats, & burp without hiding in the bathroom. But when it comes to making love last, is there such a thing as too comfortable? This is not to say that your guy will love you any less for being real, but if you let all the mystery & romance die, will the relationship eventually die as well? We've yet to do our show & hear what different successful couples have to say on the matter, but in my humble opinion, what can often cause a perfectly good relationship to fizzle, is when the two people involved stop trying. Not just appearance-wise, but also in the little gestures & things we do & say in the beginning of a relationship.
When's the last time you put a little extra effort in? When's the last time you & your significant other got off the couch & went dancing? When's the last time that you said "You're beautiful", "You're Awesome", or even a simple "I love you"? It's not so much about what you say or do, it's that the person you're with knows that you are trying & that you don't take them for granted. Sometimes getting too comfortable in your relationship can seem like you don't care.
More to come this Wed....
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