Touching on a Taboo Subject...

My co-host Mike & I have always promised each other that when it comes to Sorry We're Perfect, we will remain true to who we are. And sometimes that means discussing subjects that aren't quite as lighthearted. We're not afraid to talk about things that can sometimes be uncomfortable. We understand that life is not always fun. We believe that it's our civic duty to reach out to others and to make a difference whenever we can. That's why our next subject covers a topic that is a little more serious & a little harder to talk about... CHILD ABUSE. According to Childhelp.org, the United States has the worst record in the industrialized nation, losing 5 children EVERY SINGLE DAY due to abuse. Just of the cases reported, there are SIX MILLION children affected by child abuse in this country every year. Those are just the reported cases. Whether physical, sexual, or emotional/verbal- child abuse is something that damages children FOR LIFE. I know personally what sort of damage abuse causes to a child. It is not something that happens and then is forgotten as children grow up. When a child is abused, it affects them in some way for the rest of their life. Yes, there are varying degrees of abuse. But no matter what it is, I can guarantee that every child that suffers abuse, suffers as an adult. Abuse is often a taboo subject. People that have been abused don't want to talk about. People that witness abuse don't want to get involved. People that abuse often look and act just like everyone else...to the point where outsiders find it impossible that they are in fact abusers. We all know it occurs, but we've been conditioned to look the other way. We've been conditioned not to notice. It is an ugly subject. Often, children who are abused, whether it's by family, friends, friends of family, or a complete stranger, never see their abuser confronted. They never get closure on their abuse. They don't talk about it and they don't deal with it. Unfortunately, it also never goes away. Like most "bad" things in life, abuse that isn't dealt with will follow a victim forever. As we prepare for our episode on child abuse, we hope that we can provide resources and information that will help people. In order to stop child abuse in this country, we have to be able to talk about it. We can no longer allow this problem to remain a taboo subject. If we face it, if we talk about it and make people aware, we create change. And we save lives. For adults out there who have been abused and have hidden their story, their are resources available to provide support. You no longer have to feel that no one understands, that what happened is shameful to you in anyway, or that you can't talk about it. For more information on support for adult victims of child abuse, visit www.ascasupport.org. And tune in Wed., Sept. 26th as Sorry We're Perfect talks about child abuse.

Speaking Out Against Child Abuse

Next Wed., September 26, Sorry We're Perfect will be airing an episode that we've been planning for quite some time addressing the issue of child abuse. Millions of children around the world suffer some sort of abuse every day. They live in unsafe environments and are often forced to endure their pain in secret & silence. Sadly, those who keep the secret of abuse as a child typically carry that secret through to adulthood, never really having the opportunity to heal or come to terms with their abuse. It takes an enormous amount of courage for victims to speak up about their abuse or confront their abusers. If you have a story you would like to share, even anonymously, please email us at sorryweareperfet@gmail.com.

Sorry We're Perfect Talks about Dating

Just last week my besty & fabulous co-host (not to mention new roommate) & I enjoyed a fabu date night. I prepared a chile lime chicken with mashed potatoes & a scrumptious salad while he shook up some delicious dirty (veeeeery dirty) martinis with blue cheese stuffed olives. We started off by chatting & rehashing our day while sipping a martini & snacking on a cheese plate with warm bread for dipping in fig balsamic vinegar & olive oil. What I'm getting at is...we love to eat. That little friend date combined three of our favorite things- cocktails, delish food, and chatting. In essence, it was the perfect friend date for us. But every couple, be it a romantic couple or a friend couple, needs to find the perfect date that suits them & their relationship. Because make no mistake---dates are very important. As a couple, they keep the romance alive and in friendships they give you that special one on one time that sometimes gets lost when you become involved in a relationship (we are ALL guilty of letting our friendships slip away at some point or another because we're caught up in the twinkly, mushy first stages of a love affair). Why do couples sometimes let their dating life slip away the longer they're together? Sometimes it's because they're on a tight budget. Sometimes it's because they can't get a night away due to having kids, but no sitter. Sometimes it's just scheduling conflicts or after awhile, you just seem to run out of fresh ideas and you feel at a loss for what to do or where to go. Join Sorry We're Perfect tonight at 11 PM East Coast time as we discuss dating ideas for every couple on every budget. From the super romantic special occasion dates to the spontaneous, casual, one on one time between you & the one you love, we have come up with some new & exciting options that will inspire you to mix things up. http://www.blogtalkradio.com/sorryweareperfect/2012/09/13/fun-new-date-ideas-for-every-couple

Show Me The Reunion

It felt like Channukah came early this year when E! played one of my favorite “reunion movies”, Sex and The City The Movie”. It was great to see my favorite 4 gal pals back together again and even though it wasn’t the first time I’ve seen the movie (try 36.5 times to be exact) but nonetheless, it was as exciting as the first time I saw this movie. It got me thinking about other shows that need to follow in Minolo Blanic footsteps of Carrie, Miranda, Samantha and Charlotte and get a move on with their reunion movies. There has been high hopes for years that the cast of Friends would get together one last time for a hit big screen reunion. I know many of the cast is busy with their UBER successful post-friends career, including Courtney Cox (Arquette) tending to her hilarious show Cougar Town, and her (and or Chelsea Handlers) besty Jennifer Anniston who’s movie career is so smoking that she rakes in a cool 20 million per film. I’m sure Lisa Kudrow would find time from filming her underrated show on Showtime, Web Therapy, to get back together with the gang one last time for a cup of Joe at Central Perk. It’s not to say our male friends have not experienced much success since their parting, but let’s just say, a Ross for example might be much more “available” to do some work than lets say a Rachel. Another group that I would LOVE to see get back together is the fabulous four funny friends of Will and Grace. Sure, we got a glimpse of their future in the last episode, and I can only imagine how wonderfully fulfilling it is for Will to have his son room next to Grace’s daughter in college, but come on, we want to know what lead up to that point. Doe Karen take notes from the Sonja Morgan handbook and land herself a role on a version of Real Housewives of NYC adding a fun new dynamic that allows us to enjoy her quirky and raunchy personality with the new twist of America’s obsession with Reality TV…, and what is Jack like now that he is breadwinner of the dynamic Karen/Jack duo! Does he employ his own version of Rosario not only giving her a companion but an alibi! What shows would you like to see reunite?

Reunited...and it feels so good...

Last night's episode was smooth like butter...that's right. We dished on our pet peeves & even hear from our number one fan, Steve (we've missed you Steve!!!). Now it's on to some big changes. First on the list, I will be re-locating from Colorado back to Baltimore (what what) which means that after an unbearably long separation of 4 years, my co-host/besty & I will be reunited. To celebrate this amazing reunion, as well as our new co-habitation (can't wait to see what fodder for radio that brings...),we will be hosting our first ever live episode all about reunions. How many great acts throughout history have undergone breakups, separations, breakdowns, and fall outs...only to be reunited with a BANG to the joy of their friends & fans? Think show casts, movies, musicians/bands, celebrity couples, fictional characters...Mike & Cassandra... As Sorry We're Perfect begins this new step of our lives, we believe that our show is going to grow by leaps & bounds. Once on the same coast, in the same time zone, in the same house, is there anything we can't achieve??? Think WORLD DOMINATION! To be continued...

Pet Peeves

It seems to me that one of the biggest topics of conversation at my job are people's pet peeves. Every single shift at the restaurant, I hear several employees begin stories with, "One of my biggest pet peeves is when..." followed by something that either another employee or a customer has done to irk them. Now granted, I have just as many pet peeves as the next person, but do we sometimes get a little out of control with getting annoyed? Because that's what pet peeves basically are...they are the little behaviors or mannerisms that people do which annoy an individual. The problem is that usually these are not things that annoy everyone-they're not even necessarily annoying at all. They just bother certain people. They're specific to individuals. So for example, it may drive me absolutely crazy when people blow their nose in public. I hate it. It sickens me. It makes me want to throw up. I'm torn between wanting to punch them in the face or run screaming from the room. But most people couldn't care less. I know this because a)tons of people blow their nose in public & b)people look at me like I'm crazy when I let them in on this little pet peeve of mine. And sometimes it's funny when people tell you their pet peeves. I enjoy a good vent session as much as the next person. However, it seems that some people are annoyed by EVERYTHING. So at what point is it ok to let a person know that something they're doing bothers you? If it's just some harmless little thing that for some reason sets you & you alone off, should you mention it and hold that person responsible or expect them to stop that behavior? Or should you just learn to live with it, realizing that you're the difficult one? For example, I know a girl who is annoyed by everything. When people wear perfume it's too strong. When people hum or sing or whistle it's annoying. If she gets asked a question, it's stupid. It's one thing to have pet peeves, but is there a possibility that sometimes people are just a little too easily irritated? To the point where we all have to walk on egg shells around them? Should we all just maybe...lighten up? As we get ready to air our show on pet peeves, I'm interested to see what we come up with. While many of us might share pet peeves, there are some really unusual ones out there. And when it comes to dealing with pet peeves, what is the best way to handle them?

My pet peve

one of my biggest pet peves occurs when I am driving. I live on a "main" street in Cockeysville and upon exiting my driveway, I face a major intersection. I can usually time it right when I head out to work that if I leave just in time I will catch the green left earrow guiding me happily toward work. However, sometimes I am forced to miss this empowering arrow, one that only happens every 4 minuted, because someone in front of me finds that its much more important to text and or update their facebook status than pay attention to driving....consequently I can unexpectantedly ne 4 minutes late to work....people who text while they drive are among my top pet peves

Where Is the Line

I’m sure anyone reading this has come across a child who was acting up and was in desperate need of some discipline.  Cassandra and I used to work at The Rain Forrest Café (or as I like to call it, the best birth control in the world!!)  and were overwhelmed with bratty, rude, spoiled, obnoxious, out of control, little monsters in the form of children on a constant basis.  There never seemed to be a day that went by that we didn’t think “that kid is in desperate need of some discipline”.  And sometimes, our prayers were answered even before we could leave the table.  Some parents were not shy to tell little Tommy “If you do not stop bothering your little sister you will not get any dessert”…(I didn’t have the heart to tell Tommy that he wasn’t missing out because our dessert was nothing to be impressed by…and I kind of liked the road of discipline Tommy was headed on, so I just kept quiet and enjoyed the ride)  Most of the time the threat of not getting dessert or a toy from the gift shop would put any rugrat back into check.  However, sometimes we would get little children who are not easily persuaded!  I remember little Sally, who had a fixation on running around the restaurant despite the many attempts Sally’s mom made to calm her down.  As little Sally ran by me, nearly knocking over the order of drinks another one of my tables ordered, I thought to myself, ‘when did this become a playground’.  Sure a little spilled soda wouldn’t bother little Sally, but if she bumped into the server carrying hot fajitas, I’m sure that would put a damper on her parade.  Well, not to worry because as soon as that thought left my mind, little Sally’s angry mom came over and spanked her, causing little Sally to cry…(and the rest of the restaurant to burst out into a standing ovation for Sally’s mom)…In preparation of our next show on child abuse I am beginning to ponder, if it is ok to spank your child or if any physical contact should be cut off.  Sure, little Sall’y mom did not beat her child, and from the sound of the spank, probably did not leave any incriminating marks.  However, is spanking a gate-way punishment to abuse?   And even if parents can differentiate and control themselves to the point where their spanks never turn into abuse, does having a no physical contact law in place help protect those children who are being physically abused.  Much like anything in life, there is a gray area…but where do we as a nation draw the line in the sand to help protect innocently abused children?

Know The Signs- From Hopeshining.org

Child Abuse

10 Signs A Child Is Being AbusedSigns of

Unexplained injuries.

include unexplained burns or bruises in the shape of objects. You

may also hear unconvincing explanations of a child’s injuries.

Visible signs of physical abuse may

Changes in behavior.

a child’s behavior. Abused children often appear scared, anxious,

depressed, withdrawn or more aggressive.

Abuse can lead to many changes in

Returning to earlier behaviors.

display behaviors shown at earlier ages, such as thumb-sucking,

bed-wetting, fear of the dark or strangers. For some children, even

loss of acquired language or memory problems may be an issue.

Abused children may

Fear of going home.

apprehension or anxiety about leaving school or about going

places with the person who is abusing them.

Abused children may express

Changes in eating.

abuse can lead to changes in a child’s eating behaviors, which

may result in weight gain or weight loss.

The stress, fear and anxiety caused by

Changes in sleeping.

nightmares or have difficulty falling asleep, and as a result may

appear tired or fatigued.

Abused children may have frequent

Changes in school performance and attendance.

Abused children may have difficulty concentrating in school or

have excessive absences, sometimes due to adults trying to hide

the children’s injuries from authorities.

Lack of personal care or hygiene.

children may appear uncared for. They may present as

consistently dirty and have severe body odor, or they may lack

sufficient clothing for the weather.

Abused and neglected

Risk-taking behaviors.

abused may engage in high-risk activities such as using drugs or

alcohol or carrying a weapon.

Young people who are being

Inappropriate sexual behaviors.

sexually abused may exhibit overly sexualized behavior or use

explicit sexual language.

Children who have been

Some signs that a child is experiencing violence or

abuse are more obvious than others.

Suspected abuse is enough of a reason to contact the

authorities. You do not need proof.

Trust your instincts.

9

10

revitalization and financial literacy.

New York, call the NY State Central Registry of Child Abuse

and Maltreatment at

State, visit 800.342.3720. Outside of New Yorkwww.hopeshining.org for a list of resources.

It Takes a Village

Have you ever been out in public trying to enjoy a nice day while humming the latest GLEE hits when all of a sudden you hear someone slap someone else and before you can locate the nearest emergency exit and or turn to see who is about to get into a rumble, you are left shocked to see that the loud slap was a parent striking their 4 year old child in the face.

Have you ever been over someone’s house for dinner where you are dining with their family, trying to ignore the uncomfortable comments the mom makes to her 13 year old daughter, terrorizing her about her weight?   As the little girl is just shuffling food back and forth on her plate staring at it with fear, you start to think to yourself, if she is willing to say that to her daughter in front of guests I cannot imagine what she says to this young girl when she is alone. 

How many times have you turned on the TV and saw a story about a leader in the community being accused of raping a child?  Whether it is the scandals that rocked the Catholic churches (not saying other denominations do not have their fair share of scandals too) or the recently publicized events of Former Penn State Coach Sandusky.  Have you or someone you know been inclined to think “I cannot imagine  He would do that to those kids, I’m sure they are just exaggerating, or trying to take advantage of this person so they can get fame or money”. 

Next time you doubt that child, whether to yourself or to their face, or the next time you do not speak up for that little girl who is being verbally abused, and the next time you do not stand up for that kid who is being abused in broad day light, think about the abuse you did not see that those children face.  It is our mission on our upcoming episode to shed light on this important subject, so that we can not only talk about ways we can get involved, but let those who are abused, or were abused know that we are on their side.

Touching on a Taboo Topic...

My co-host Mike & I have always promised each other that when it comes to Sorry We're Perfect, we will remain true to who we are. And sometimes that means discussing subjects that aren't quite as lighthearted. We're not afraid to talk about things that can sometimes be uncomfortable. We understand that life is not always fun. We believe that it's our civic duty to reach out to others and to make a difference whenever we can. That's why our next subject covers a topic that is a little more serious & a little harder to talk about...
CHILD ABUSE.
According to Childhelp.org, the United States has the worst record in the industrialized nation, losing 5 children EVERY SINGLE DAY due to abuse. Just of the cases reported, there are SIX MILLION children affected by child abuse in this country every year. Those are just the reported cases. Whether physical, sexual, or emotional/verbal- child abuse is something that damages children FOR LIFE.
I know personally what sort of damage abuse causes to a child. It is not something that happens and then is forgotten as children grow up. When a child is abused, it affects them in some way for the rest of their life. Yes, there are varying degrees of abuse. But no matter what it is, I can guarantee that every child that suffers abuse, suffers as an adult.
Abuse is often a taboo subject. People that have been abused don't want to talk about. People that witness abuse don't want to get involved. People that abuse often look and act just like everyone else...to the point where outsiders find it impossible that they are in fact abusers. We all know it occurs, but we've been conditioned to look the other way. We've been conditioned not to notice. It is an ugly subject.
Often, children who are abused, whether it's by family, friends, friends of family, or a complete stranger, never see their abuser confronted. They never get closure on their abuse. They don't talk about it and they don't deal with it. Unfortunately, it also never goes away. Like most "bad" things in life, abuse that isn't dealt with will follow a victim forever.
As we prepare for our episode on child abuse, we hope that we can provide resources and information that will help people. In order to stop child abuse in this country, we have to be able to talk about it. We can no longer allow this problem to remain a taboo subject. If we face it, if we talk about it and make people aware, we create change. And we save lives.
For adults out there who have been abused and have hidden their story, their are resources available to provide support. You no longer have to feel that no one understands, that what happened is shameful to you in anyway, or that you can't talk about it. For more information on support for adult victims of child abuse, visit www.ascasupport.org.
And tune in Wed., June 20th, as Sorry We're Perfect talks about child abuse.

"2012 Bachelor of the Year" Pete talks to Sorry We're Perfect's listeners all the way from Hawaii!

Aloha!

First, it was an honor to be chosen as the first bachelor of the year for Sorry We're Perfect. What a great podcast! I thoroughly enjoyed the on air question and answer session we had. I have to admit I was a little nervous on the first question.

With all that being said, I think that being a bachelor in itself is a great thing! You have the freedom to do whatever you want, whenever you want, and how you want. I don't think though that once a guy meets his "special lady" that these thing should change. One can still do what he wants, how he wants; however, I think it would be even more special do to it with someone he loves.

Too many relationships, married or not, get caught up in the routine. I have found myself guilty of this at times. One sometimes forgets to keep dating her and to keep the romance alive. Personally, I think there is no better feeling than surprising a woman and making her feel special, not just on her birthday or on an anniversary, but on a random day, at a random time. I think that's what I miss most about being in a relationship.

Okay, well it really was fun! I really look forward to calling in again and I certainly can't wait to help you guys co-host the bachelorette of the year competition. I certainly have a few questions for the ladies out there that I'd like to set straight!

Mahalo!

Pete

2012 Bachelor of the Year episode TONIGHT!!!

OMG we are too excited for words! Not only have we been planning & looking forward to this Bachelor of the Year episode for MONTHS, but we miss being on the radio as Sorry We're Perfect has been on hiatus for quite some time! We've been getting a little antsy if you wanna know the truth...once you get a taste of fame it's kind of hard to revert back to normal life outside the spotlight. Ok, ok so maybe we haven't exactly had a taste of fame quite yet, but we do miss talking with all of our listeners on the air! And I miss my co-host and our cozy little chats in the aftershow! (xoxo)
Definitely tune in tonight at 9PM/11PM to hear Pete, Josh, & Matt (our top 3 bachelors) battle it out on the air for the title Bachelor of the Year. We polled a lot of women to get their opinions & we will be asking our contestants some very pertinent questions. We know they're fun, charming, & goodlooking...now it's time to see how well these bachelors know women!
Can't wait!!!

The End Game

We only have a couple days left until our much anticipated Bachelor of the Year contest, and we could not be more excited to talk to the top three handsome fellas.  Throughout the contest as the very handsome and equally impressive contestants pic’s and profiles came flooding in, I kept thinking, “wow, I bet girls across the country, maybe even the world (as we do somehow have a fan base in Russia?!) are going to try and snatch these guys up, force them down the aisle and possibly start shopping for baby clothes.  Of course, this very polluted stream of conscience then led me to ponder, what if they (meaning the bachelors, or bachelors in general) do not aspire for the white picket fence, marriage and 2.5 children?  Is it acceptable in today’s society to want to be a permanent bachelor.  I mean some people become perma-vacationers in beautiful tropical locations because at one point they went on what they thought was going to be a brief vacation, and decided, “hey, if this is the pinnacle of happiness, why limit myself to just a few short days in the sun, when I can bask in this glory 24/7 365”…now I do not have anyone I can actually cite that quote from, but I’m sure someone at some point has said it…

So back to my point, is it ok for people to decide that their ultimate goal in life is to remain a bachelor, or bachelorette or do we as a society deem that as completely unacceptable.  Perhaps I will ask our 3 bachelors on Wednesday night’s show, but in the meantime I would love to hear your feedback.

2012 Bachelor of the Year Candidates!

Hi everybody! It is finally time to unveil our 2012 Bachelor of the Year Contest contestants (see contest page for rules & voting guidelines). We hope you like our 12 bachelors as much as we do. We think we've found some really cute, fun guys & we can't wait to see who wins the title of Bachelor of the Year! Once you pick your favorite bachelor, be sure to follow the contest guidelines to ensure your guy receives his 3 possible votes from you & check back at our blog often to follow their progress. And now introducing (drumroll please)...


Bachelor # 1: Matt

Howdy. My name is Matt. I am a simple man. I was born and raised in Iowa & lived on a farm for 8 years. You would not be incorrect if you were to call me a farmboy. I moved to Colorado Springs to attend UCCS after my high school graduation in 2009. I migrated West for several reasons. Although I will always have a love for Iowa, I wanted to experience a different area. I was fortunate enough to receive a couple scholarships- we all know out-of-state tuition ain't cheap. :-) Furthermore, I ran cross country & track for UCCS my first two years of school. Most importantly, I have always been drawn to Colorado and the West. The landscapes suit my interests of hiking, fly-fishing, camping, cutting firewood, snowshoeing, backcountry skiing...you get the point. I study geography & environmental studies, which may come as no surprise. I am a family man: I have 4 brothers & I owe never-ending respect to my parents. I enjoy a close group of good friends. My idea of a great night in the city would be making a campfire, grillin out, & having some beers. I like breakfast foods & dark haired women. Interestingly, I am the great-great-grandson of John Wayne, who was born in my hometown of Winterset. That's me.


Bachelor # 2: Josh

Hey what's up? My name is Josh. I am a people person. I'm pretty laid back & I get along with just about everybody. Most people that know me would say I'm a nice guy. I love sports- playing them & watching them & a good time for me would be hanging out with my boys, drinking beer & watching a game- basketball, football, baseball...I like them all. I guess you could say I'm a guy's guy, but I can still be a romantic gentlemen when the time is right. Let's just say I believe in treating women well.






Bachelor # 3: Peter

                                               

Hi my name is Peter. I'm 31 & I live in Honolulu, Hawaii. Growing up in upstate New York, I was one of the youngest graduates of the Culinary Institute of America at the age of 19.  I graduated with honors & at the age of 23 moved to Honolulu, Hawaii to continue my career as a chef.  In 2008 I suffered a motorcycle crash that changed my life forever.  Aside from my professional career, I began volunteering at the Waikiki Aquarium as a docent, inspiring & promoting the understanding, appreciation & conservation of Pacific marine life.  In 2010 I ran for public office & won, landing me a seat on the Nuuanu Valley Neighborhood Board, acting as a liaison between the public & elected officials of Honolulu.  That same year I became involved with the Nuuanu Valley Auwai Study Group, aimed at conserving a Hawaiian legacy left by the Hawaiian Monarchs over a century ago.  In my free time I enjoys surfing, hiking, strategy games, photography, & writing iPhone apps.

One thing that I dislike? People who make weird whistling sounds through their nose when they breathe.

Aloha!










Bachelor # 4: Brad


Hi everyone! My name is Brad Kosley. I am 6'1 & 173 pounds.  I am currently 19 years old, residing in the town of Colorado Springs, Colorado. I was born & raised here & I wouldn't have it any other way. Currently I am attending the University of Phoenix, in pursuit of my business management & human resources degree. Last year I went to Gustavus Adolphus College, located in St. Peter, Minnesota. I ended up playing division III hockey for a year, which was the best time of my life. I have played hockey for fifteen years now & baseball for eight. My hobbies include a lot of outdoor activities, like ultimate Frisbee, Frisbee golfing, hiking, running & working out. I try to be a very active person because I'm not the one that enjoys being bored. ;-) I am constantly moving around town, usually to hang out with friends but I also love trying new things. I see myself as the funny guy, because I am always trying to lighten up a situation or just make people laugh. I enjoy going to parties- I find it a good way to meet people. Over all, I'm just all about meeting people & having a fun time.

  

Bachelor # 5: Miah

Hey, I'm Jeremiah, but everyone just calls me Miah. I'm a happy, funny guy and I really love to make people laugh. That usually entails a lot of cracking jokes or acting silly (sometimes even in costume) but that's not all I'm about. I have my serious side too. I also love to read & I'm always down for a good film or just chillen' with friends. I can also come up with some pretty good lyrics on the fly. I love to cook & I'm a kitchen manager at Texas Roadhouse, the happiest place on earth. Oh wait no, that's Disney World. My bad. When it comes down to it, I'd say I'm more of a lover than a fighter & I choose cuddles over guns. I act silly, but I can also be a big romantic deep down. With me, there's definitely more than meets the eye.

Bachelor # 6: Jay

Hi I'm Jay. I'm 21 years old & I'm a pretty nice guy. I'm a little shy, but once you get to know me you'll find that I'm a loyal friend, respectful to women, & I like to have fun. I'm not really into drama or any of that & I still think it's a good thing to offer up my seat or open doors for a lady. I was raised by my mom & she raised me right. I'm into sports, whether it's baseball or basketball at the park, spending a day on the golf course, or snow boarding. Basically I just like to be out in the sun enjoying Colorado. 

Bachelor # 7: Tony
Hey what's up everyone? I'm Tony & I'm 33. I like to think I'm pretty funny.  I'm smart, compassionate, & p.s. I freaken love animals! I don't have a whole lot of free time because I work full time & I volunteer at the ASPCA. I'm pretty close to my family & I still like to make sure I have Sunday dinner with my parents every week. I used to play baseball in high school & I still try to get to the batting cages a few hours a week. Like most guys, I never went pro but I'm still happy relaxing with a beer & watching a good game. : ) I'm currently single, but usually I like women who can just be themselves. 
Bachelor # 8: Chris

I am 29 years old & a recent graduate from a nursing program where I get to live out my passion of helping people.  I am a hard worker & plan to continue growing in the medical field so that I can have a long, successful career.  When it comes to women I enjoy someone who also has a strong appetite & passion for life, both personally & professionally.  My strong work ethic comes from a more humbled beginnings where my family scraped to barely make it by.  Nothing in life is easy & the challenge is part of the fun.  When it comes to dating I love to pamper my gal.  I was taught at an early age that chivalry will get you far, and thus on our dates you will receive flowers; the door will be open for you; & the only thing I hope you "pay" is attention ;-).
My ideal dates include something spontaneous; perhaps a random roadtrip to a local vineyard or even something adventurous as rock climbing.  I believe I would be the best bachelor of the year because my dedication & hard work that I have used to be successful in my career is the same level of enthusiasm & commitment I put forth in all of my relationships.

Bachelor # 9: Mike
Age:25Likes: I like to play pretty much any sport especially,tennis, racketball, skiing, snowboarding.  I like hanging out with my friends & taking random trips
What I like in Women: I like a woman who is confident and not materialistic.  You have to have depth to you beyond just shopping & boring me with your latest Real Housewives of I Dont Give a Crap.  No, but in all seriousness I do enjoy a woman who I can get lost in a conversation with, about things that actually matter.  I have had my fair share of shallow women in my life & it has lead nowhere.  As far as looks go, I am not picky.  I may be one of the last people on earth who will date a skinny girl just as fast as I will date a thicker girl.  Just as long as they are living a healthy life.
Dislikes:  I cannot stand people who do not say thank you.  I am a man of few peeves but that is at the top of my list. Bachelor #10: Jaime
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    I might in fact be one of the last bachelors in the group of my close friends.  It's not because I am weird or do not date.  I love going on dates, & would love to find that one person.  I think what makes me, quite possible the oldest bachelor that will likely enter this competition, is that I work a lot & refuse to settle.  Despite the current real estate market I have been very successful. I would like a girl who would appreciate someone who can take care of her allowing her not to work.  When I am not busy working hard I would love to travel the world with her & open her eyes to the many wonders that are a short or long plane ride away.  I like girls who are in their mid twenties because I have found they are not as jaded & are much more open to letting a guy like me take care of them the way they deserve & need.
Bachelor # 11:  Robbie
Hi I'm Robbie & I'm 24. My friends told me to enter this contest...I dont know exactly what to say about myself.  I keep it real, so here we go.  I'm a good lookin guy, thats not me being conceited, but come to my hometown in Jersey & you will probablly agree. I could win beauty contests compared to these other guys.  Working out is important to me because it keeps me in shape.  What girl wants a guy who lets himself go & gets fat? It's important to have a good personality, & I do. I am funny, smart, & a good guy, but if you cant take care of your looks & workout then how do you expect your girl to react.  She deserves better.  Besides, not that I am ready to have kids yet, but when she looks at you & your out of weight she looks and thinks, man am I gonna have little chalupas of kids running around gettin bullied.  She doesnt need that. I'll make sure she gets treated well & has a real man to take care of her.
Bachelor # 12: Kelly
My wife passed away four years ago leaving behind my two beautiful children.  I am ready to find that second great love of my life, consequently someone who can not only love me but my adorable children as well.  I am a computer engineer who mostly works from home which affords me the time and capacity to be there for my number one priorities, my children.  However, I am seeking someone who I can share my everything with and include them in my list of priorities.  When I am not watching Spongebob or cleaning up messes from my little ones I do like to take time to enjoy myself.  I enjoy going to concerts, ranging from local jazz bands to national headliners.  To me a perfect date would like some element of surprise, intriguing conversation and that spark of passion that let's us know we might just be more than friends.