With the state of the current economy, times are certainly tough for many of us. It goes without saying that with less money, or more uncertainty of whether or not you will have a job, many are being more frugal when it comes to expenditures. However, we cannot let the economy set us back romantically, after all, there is safety in numbers so don't let your loved one slip away because you don't want to spend that little extra on romance. If we did a poll on what people think is the most romantic thing they have ever experienced (or wish to experience) I am sure we will be flooded with a variety of answers. I even bet that most of them will not involve a hefty price tag but rather something that was very thought provoking and from the heart. Please share with us some of the ways someone can be romantic on a budget so that those who want to keep the spark alive in their relationship but do not want to necessarily become homeless in the process can woo their boo.
Here are some inexpensive yet romantic ideas we have come up with:
1. Romantic Picnic- For many of us, the Fall is the perfect climate to spend a nice romantic day outdoors with that special someone. Why not surprise them by blind folding them and whisking them away to your areas most scenic spot. Pack a blanket, some of their favorite food and beverage, and be sure to include a romantic mix of their favorite songs on your Ipod. Now if it were me, I would be happy with a little variety of cheese (if you have a Wegmans nearby pick up their cheese flights which come with 3 different gourmet cheeses, crackers and dried fruit, and it is only $7...if you do not have a Wegmans nearby, consider moving) I would then pair that cheese with a nice bottle of red wine. Keep in mind that you do not have to spend a ton of money on the wine. Now, don't get me wrong you do not necessarily want to aim for the cheapest...Ask the wine clerk which bottle of wine would best suit the cheese you have selected and share with him what your price range is. It is more thoughtful to spend the time on the details rather than spending a ton of money without any effort. As you are pleasing your palate, be sure to back up the intimate moment by expressing from the heart how you feel about them, and what it is that makes them the only person who can make spending a quiet and simple afternoon into an unforgettably romantic day. If all goes well, you might be using that blind fold later on too ;-)
2. Candles and Massage: Who doesn't enjoy a candlelit setting and or a nice relaxing massage. When you put the two together you have an inexpensive yet EXPLOSIVE combination for some hot passionate romance! If you go to an IKEA you can get a bag of 100 tealight candles for like $5. Spread them around your bedroom (obviously not near anything flammable or that will catch on fire easily, that is not the type of fire we are aiming for here). Put on some romantic music by customizing a mix on your ipod/computer. Preferably burn it to a CD, that way you can give it to them so they can always remember the night! When they come home have a nice soothing drink ready for them, something that will really relax them, like hot green tea, or possibly a Long Island Iced Tea, whatever they fancy. Tell them why it is you are lucky to have them in your life and because of that you want to treat them to a nice evening of relaxation. Blind fold them and guide them to the bedroom (or wherever you plan on massaging them). I do not want you to think I am obsessed with blind folds or mix cd's (although I kinda am) but the reason I suggest the blind fold in this situation is to enhance the sensation of touch and sound, and leave sight out of it. It will allow them to focus on the massage and the soothing music that much more. Be sure to get some aromatic massage oil, which you can pick up even at Walmart for under $10. Do not be stingy on the time you massage them, you should spoil them with at least 30 minutes, longer if possible. I guarantee this simple and affordable romantic evening will conclude with a happy ending!
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